Feeling okay. A little tired. Trying to focus on the big picture and not be sad about the lack of romantic love in my life.

How many children do you have?

3. Girl/14, Girl/11 and Boy/10 days

How old were you when you had your first child? 

She was born 2 days into being 18

Do you remember your initial reaction when you found out you were pregnant?

I was terrified and disappointed. I was a senior in high school, graduating at the top of my class, with plans to move far away for college

What first comes to mind when you think of mental health?

I initially think of my own anxiety but then other generalities like depression and negative thinking.

Do you suffer from any mental illnesses yourself? 

Oh, I guess I jumped ahead! I do have mild to moderate anxiety.

How was your mental health before you became a mama? How has motherhood changed or improved your mental health?

Do you self care? 

Any advice for other mamas? 

Being in charge of the littles is a hard job! It’s normal to feel overwhelmed at times but just think about how you don’t remember every single day of your childhood. Certain things stand out. Try to focus on making big memories with your kids and don’t sweat the small stuff.

What’s your drink of choice? 

Sweet and dark. Honey whiskey might be my favorite.