Important Things 2019 Has Taught Me


Its almost 2020 and I still can’t believe it. Boy does time fly. I like to reflect on the things that I’ve learned throughout the year and use them as guidance for the next year. Every year I realize most of these things but it seems to get truer and truer the older I get. I’m not surprised because as we get older things are being put more into perspective. Here is what I learned. Feel free to let me know what you’ve learned!

– Keep your circle small. Not everyone has your best interest.

– Don’t let anyone strip you of your emotions. No one can take those away from you.

– People want want want and just expect to get it. I love to help in any way that I can. That’s just the type of person I am. But at what cost? Why I am bending over backward for people who don’t even consider me?

– Have fun with my writing. I shouldn’t let what’s on social media discourage me. This is what I want to do and that’s all that matters.

– Do not compare yourself to others.

– Never feel forced to do anything. It’s always okay to say no.

– Take a break when you need it. Whoever doesn’t get it is just wasting your energy.

– Lastly, I am stronger than I ever thought I was. I mean come on I had the worst pregnancy and a pretty difficult labor and delivery. If I can do that. I can do anything.


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As always, thanks so much for reading! Questions, comments, and feedback are always welcome. If you enjoyed this post, please comment, like and share! Make sure to check out my Instagram; @T_scorner 💋


7 thoughts on “Important Things 2019 Has Taught Me

  1. All pretty good advice . I honestly keep certain social media to a min. Mainly Facebook since its really easy to get caught up in FB drama , but I keep it for my long distance family . Instagram and WordPress are the more chill playforms so I spend more time on them .


  2. These are all really great things to learn this year and I totally agree with the part about not letting people force you to do something. You need to do what you feel is best not what others expect you to do.


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